I Don’t Know If My Friends Even Like Me
The feeling arrives in moments of quiet uncertainty: you look at the group and wonder if you actually belong there, or if you’re just present
The feeling arrives in moments of quiet uncertainty: you look at the group and wonder if you actually belong there, or if you’re just present
If the environment you go home to is chaotic — loud, tense, emotionally unpredictable, or simply relentlessly draining — you can’t wait for the environment
There are few social experiences as disorienting as being inside a group one day and outside of it the next. People who were your people
People talk about healing like it’s a straightforward process: you recognize what’s wrong, you get help, you get better. But what they don’t always talk
Something happens in a group chat — a comment, a screenshot, an argument that starts small and blows up — and suddenly what could have
Online cruelty operates by different rules than in-person cruelty, and those differences make it hit harder in specific ways. A comment someone leaves on your
A fake friend isn’t always easy to identify, because the behavior is often inconsistent. They’re great sometimes — fun, warm, present. Other times they’re cold,
You’ve probably heard that social media shortens your attention span. That’s true, and it’s worth caring about. But it’s actually the smaller part of what
Being surrounded by people and still feeling completely alone is one of the more disorienting experiences. You’re at lunch, at a party, in a group
The cruelty that does the most damage is rarely one dramatic incident. It’s the accumulation of smaller things — the repeated joke that’s always at